Note: Live butterflies can be found here:
*picture of your loved one
*cardboard or wooden box
*as many blue candles as you can gather
*cauldron or fire-safe bowl
*cinnamon (for healing and strengthened spirituality)
*lavender (for peace)
Timing: Saturday, about an hour before sunset. Do this after an appropriate period of mourning. Two days after the funeral is not a good idea. People just aren’t ready. Wait at least a month, or even on the first anniversary of their death, if they died during the warmer months.