Getting ready for my favorite Sabbat of the year.
Oak leaves for the Oak King. 🙂
Pretty cool chalice, huh?
Wishing you and yours a happy Litha!
Planning a handfasting?
Don’t want it to look like a cross between a goth convention and a renaissance fair?
Or maybe you’d like to include a few subtle pagan touches to your traditional wedding that your pagan friends will understand, and your other guests will probably miss entirely?
Here are some modern ideas for the chic witch.
Consider a candlelight-only ceremony. Nothing creates an ethereal, “elevated” atmosphere like candlelight. Consider cutting electric lights and using lanterns and candles alone to light your ritual.
Choose your color schemes with magic in mind. It need not be as obvious as “red for love.” Perhaps you choose deep purple because you feel a psychic bond with your partner, or emerald green because your connection feels “earthy” and honest, or a deep yellow because you share an air sign.
Fill cauldrons with fresh wildflowers and floating candles to use as centerpieces or table decor. It doesn’t have to be a super-witchy, Halloween-inspired affair. Dutch ovens in french country blue are lovely for a rustic theme, for example.
Carry a bouquet of herbs. Botanical herbs make gorgeous bouquets and they smell amazing, Choose local, in-season herbs with meaning for marriage, like rosemary for love, life-everlasting for longevity, or dill for marital passion.
If your ceremony is seated, leave scrolls with a prayer or chant on the chairs for your guests to repeat at some point during the ritual. The united voices of all your loved ones blessing your relationship adds a powerful emotional and spiritual element to the ceremony. (Better for full-on handfasting where all the guests are comfortable with full rituals).
Speaking of seating, try a spiral seating arrangement. Aside from very unique advantage of letting everyone have a front row seat to the aisle march, the spiral subtly symbolizes the feminine divine as well as the lifelong inward journey of relationship commitment.
Mark your circle with something beautiful. Wherever you plan to stand for the ceremony, make a fuss about marking the border of where your clergy will cast the circle. Be creative. Here are some examples:
-For a spring or summer handfasting, ring the circle with fresh wildflowers.
-For a fall handfasting, use autumn leaves, acorns and harvest fruits.
-For a winter handfasting, play with evergreens, pine cones, and molded ice create a wonderland feel.
-For a seaside handfasting, arrange seashells, hurricane lanterns, or nautical rope.
-For vineyard weddings, use grapes or grapevine.
Choose a dress with a connection to your ancestry. Was your mother born in Mykonos? Pay homage to her homeland with a drape-y Grecian gown. Irish roots? Try a delicate dress of intricate lace.
Give your handmaidens something inspired by your tradition as gifts (especially if many of them are also in your coven). Here are some ideas:
-Gift certificates for a tarot reading. Most tarot readers will be happy to creative gift certificates for bridesmaids or handmaidens even if they don’t normally offer them.
-A sachet of herbs blended for friendship and sisterhood.
-Rose quartz earrings or necklaces (symbolizes love in friendship).
-A bottle of herbs steeped in high-quality olive oil. Choose herbs for friendship, loyalty or bonding.
-Personalized spell kits (baby blessing for the pregnant handmaiden, home blessing for the new home owner, passion spell for the newlywed in your circle, ect)
Give out mini smudge sticks to your guests as wedding favors or to use during your send-off. Floral ones like these are especially lovely for handfastings.
Feature the Elements. Be creative. If you think about the setting and mood, a few obvious options will likely leap to mind. Consider the following examples:
-Hang wind chimes from tents (Element of Air)
-Use elegantly potted herbs as centerpieces at garden handfasting (Element of Earth),
-Have a fire pit at the reception of a backyard handfasting (Element of Fire)
-Use floating candles in your centerpieces (Element of Water and Air)
-Release butterflies during the ceremony (Element of Air)
-Feature exotic seashells in the bouquets of a beach wedding (Element of Water).
-Give your guests bubbles to blow for your send-off (Element of Air).
-Give your guests sparklers for your send-off (Element of Fire).
Begin your reception with a traditional cakes and ale. Instead of serving cake at the end, start your reception with dessert. Serve mini cakes with ale during the toasts.
Tie cloth napkins with love herbs or spices. Rosemary or thyme are both nice, subtle love symbols for spring and summer months, or cinnamon sticks for winter and fall.
Serve seasonal, local food. Farm-to-table catering provides earthy, delicious food that is connected to land around you. I can’t think of anything more pagan than that.
Let your handmaidens/bridesmaids wear flower crowns instead of carrying bouquets.
Make lavender-filled sachets for your send-off (or let me make them for you!). You will never forget running through a cloud of lavender. This classic love herb smells amazing!
Spending Beltane in the kitchen this year? Make it magical with these charming little faerie cakes.
Whimsical yet elegant, candied violets make a striking addition to love spells, wishing magic and faerie rituals.
Use candied violets in faerie cakes for a spring ritual, a “dressed up” cakes and ale or to serve at any spring gathering — especially Beltane!
The best part is, they’re practically free! If you’re in the Eastern US and you haven’t put down pesticide this year on your lawn, there’s a good chance your yard or a nearby one has wild violets in abundance.
Go spend some time outdoors, bring a basket and gather those little beauties up for a Beltane with a splash of purple.
Gather a clean, washed, dry paintbrush with a fine tip, an egg white, and some sugar.
Start by gently washing the violet blooms. A spray bottle and a strainer work well for this, but be careful! Even for flowers, wild violets are delicate!
Allow them to dry on a paper towel.
Dip the paintbrush in egg whites, and paint each blossom.
Then sprinkle sugar on the violets. Most recipes call for powdered sugar, but I use granulated because it reminds me of late frost.
Finally, bake some cupcakes!
Any vanilla cupcake recipe will do, but make it from scratch. The more you put into your ritual food, the more “fragrant” the magic of it. Be connected to the process.
Bonus points for making the vanilla extract yourself. Vanilla inspires passion in kitchen spells. Here, we use it to wink and nod at Beltane’s celebration of “spring romance.”
Pipe on some cream cheese frosting and arrange violets in tiny “bouquets.”
Serve and enjoy!
Every year, I try to do something inspired and kitchen witchy for this most decidedly food-friendly holiday.
Perhaps you’ve noticed the concept of naturally dyed Easter eggs floating around Pinterest the last few years.
I thought this made for a perfect Ostara activity.
I tried tumeric, spinach and cabbage.
Spinach was a dud. I boiled and boiled, but the dye wasn’t strong enough.
Tumeric worked okay, but it stained everything! I can see why they use this in India to dye cloth!
But the humble cabbage, at 79 cents, proved to be both the cheapest and most effective option.
The idea is pretty basic. Start with a base for extraction. In this case, we have our head of red cabbage.
Shred it and place it in a pot with a 1 to 1 ratio of water. I did 4 cups shredded cabbage with 4 cups of water.
Meanwhile, make your hard boiled eggs. Some recipes call for boiling the eggs with the dye, but I like my eggs cooked a certain way, so I did them separately. (Place eggs in pot with cold water, bring to boil, turn off heat, let them sit for 10 minutes in a covered pot, then rinse with cold water—perfect every time!)
Once your dye is done, allow it to cool and add 1 tablespoon white vinegar per cup of liquid dye.
Then submerge the eggs in the dye for 24-28 hours in the refrigerator.
But before you do that, there are some creative options that I didn’t try. The internet rumor is that if you write or draw on the eggs with crayon, it won’t dye there. You can imagine all the possibilities for spell work there!
I wanted to keep my eggs as natural as possible, so I skipped this, but I might try using beeswax in the future for a similar effect.
I really loved the way the dye turned out. It felt so earthy and wholesome. I see myself using this for a lot of things, maybe even cloth.
And there you have it! Charming, naturally dyed eggs for your Ostara ritual. Use them on the altar as an offering, or for your Ostara meal as a beautiful table decoration.
With eggs on sale at my market for 28 cents a dozen, my total cost for this project was a mere $1.08.
I decided to whip up a little something in honor of the upcoming Imbolc/Candlemas holiday.
In the past, I generally neglected Imbolc. Maybe because by February, I was over-holidayed, or maybe because unlike Mabon, Samhain, Yule and Ostara, there aren’t really any corresponding mainstream holidays.
But now, Imbolc is one of my favorites. I love that while every else considers the winter holidays to be over, we have one more to look forward to, and it’s the coziest of the year.
I chose a poppy seed cupcake for this Sabbat. The key ingredients represent some of the classic, deep-winter symbols of Candlemas.
For reference, I used this recipe.
Because of Imbolc’s strong association with seed blessing, I wanted something that features seeds. Poppy seeds in particular symbolize deep meditative states and spiritual insight.
In this context, powdered ingredients like sugar and flour represent the lightly falling snow of the season.
Known sometimes as the “Festival of Lights,” Candlemas celebrates the return of the sun and the waxing of the light after the Winter Solstice. Lemon symbolizes solar energy and light.
Imbolc celebrates animal husbandry and dairy farming in particular. For this reason, I am adding a cream cheese frosting in addition to the light lemon glaze in the recipe.
The inclusion of butter also compliments this theme.
I kind of imagine the time in the oven as “when the magic happens” in baking. So for a ritual meal, I like to say a blessing before it goes in.
And like magic, out they come!
Most people associate the beloved hair wreath with Beltane or Litha, but I was inspired by the winter foliage to do one for Imbolc (and then I dragged a poor model out into the cold to pose in it.)
If you’d like to do the same, here’s how!
You will need:
An embroidery hoop. I’ve seen other people use wire, an old hanger or other bases, but these seem to work best for me and they are fairly cheap. Available at any craft store.
Thread. Any thread will do, but I like a neutral color or green.
Some natural foliage. You can use fake flowers, too, but I think natural looks best for pictures or a one-day event. I just looked around the landscape until I spotted some color. The leaves and berries from this holly bush were perfect.
From there, it’s very simple. Take a section of the greenery and hold it firmly between your thumb and fingers.
Then wind the thread around the bunch and the embroidery hoop securely. Keep going, adding sections of greenery as you continue all the way around. Don’t worry about getting it perfect or even. A little wildness makes it look more natural.
I like to save the colors for last so they stand out on top.
And there you have it! Gorgeous. Everyone at the Sabbat circle will want one!